Tips for Ending a Note
Dating someone is something which every youth desires. It provides you with few moments which you will possibly treasure for the rest of your lives. But, like it is said, “well begun is half done”. Hence, it is very important that you end a date properly as everything that began well may not be always enjoyable till the end.
Few tips which will be useful for properly ending a date are:
- You should always be truthful about telling whether you had a good time or not. If you didn''t, you can provide reasons such as urgent meeting, appointment, phone call etc. for ending the proceedings. Your date will understand the true meaning behind your reasons. You should be kind while saying that though you had a wonderful evening, but you don''t find the two of you as ideal matches.
- Guys should always pay the bill. They should never involve in calculating who ate how much for the purpose of splitting the money. It is very essential that you form a chivalrous image by handling the checks and thanking the lady for the beautiful evening.
- Don''t let someone expect more than what is really on offer. Never provide false hopes to your date that you will be calling him/her later if this is not really what you intend to do.
- Whenever ladies insist on sharing the bill, this indirectly means that she wants to be even with you while leaving things. Depending on your preferences you can either accept or disallow this.
- Be frank in telling your date that you really like them. Though being explicit is not required but you should not be shy either. Be confident and forthright in telling that you enjoyed your date''s company and are interested in spending more amount of time with them. Ask for another date only if seriousness is there in your mind towards this.
- Never plan on major kissing like the deep throat type, and sex, until and unless both you and your date are willing for it. Retaining your enigma for some number of dates is always preferable before thinking of going into bed together. Guys should see their lady off to their car. Kissing on the cheek is a good idea while bidding goodbye to her.
- Never hurt someone''s feelings or emotions by falsely pretending that you really like them.
- Guys should see off their date to the cab without pressurizing the lady at all. Girls should ensure that they are feeling comfortable with what is happening. If you don''t want the guy to see you off to the cab, tell him.
- Keep things casual, relaxed and fun-filled. If you think that your date is not as interested as you are, keeping things optional and open-ended should be considered for giving time to your date for reconsidering.
- You should always understand that nothing happens instantly in dating. It''s a gradual stage wise process. Hence, you should be patient while letting the things in your new relationship move forward by being prepared for the many more following dates hopefully, after the first one.
These tips will help you to good extent for striking the right note with your date. There is one more thing which you must remember while ending a date. Never offer friendship to your date in case things didn''t work out between the two of you. You should understand that date has a romantic angle and friendship can never be its substitute. Your topmost priority while going for a date should be seeking possibilities for establishing a romantic relationship and not friendship.